Wednesday, March 9, 2011

a conversation with louisa varalta

i have been so excited to share this with you. louisa varalta is my aunt - my great uncle's wife - and she is everything fabulous you can imagine. a gifted painter, a delicious chef, an extraordinary hostess and the warmest person you'll meet. i was fortunate to grow up surrounded by her paintings and earlier this year, i was lucky enough to be a guest at her toronto home for an evening, and i knew i had to share it all with you. i apologize for the dim lighting...in person it was romantic, on my blackberry camera, it's a little dusky.

louisa was gracious enough to answer some questions and allow me to share photos of her work and her home. i want to soak up everything she says in her answers, and i think you'll feel the same. she is honest, candid, charming and just so totally fabulous. i know it from knowing her, and now you'll know it from reading on.

hl: you hosted us for the loveliest dinner last month and i have some questions...first, what was that delicious cheese you served?

lv: it is called "le soyeux" a camembert of ultimate quality...creamy with just enough tang to remind us of that certain edge in all things french.

hl: how do you usually build the menu of what you'll serve? where do you get your ideas?



lv: i'm unpredictable...if the party is a week down the road i may change my mind several times until the deadline to shop...but usually, if i'm entertaining a large crowd, i'll stick to an easy dish that'll serve tons of people...i.e. lasagna or a huge roast accompanied by an enormous salad with a couple of yummy homemade pies to round things up. for a more intimate dinner, then i'd go for more "recherche" dishes and let my imagination run wild; foie gras, roast fish, braised lamb shanks, celeriac puree, panna cotta, you know, the good stuff. i pluck ideas here and there, food network, local chefs' specialties, old and new magazines but eventually i make all of it my own by changing and adapting the recipe as i go along. it helps to have had as a father a talented chef and a mom who was, in his opinion, a superior cook -- both italian and i guess that's how it all started.

hl: it seems like you make everything from scratch - do you use any shortcuts you'd share?

lv: of course all homemade and from scratch...don't ask for bottled dressings. they don't exist in my house. shortcuts are another issue. if you have solid basic skills in the kitchen then you can and sometimes must take shortcuts as long as the integrity of the recipe is respected.

hl: is there a dish you just can't get right?


lv: my italian mother wanted desperately belong to her adopted quebec and time after time she would attempt to make "sucre a la creme" a basic fudge that stubbornly wouldn't set. my younger sister elena and i were the benefactors of that failure as she practically threw it at us to devour and make disappear until the next try. believe it or not, i too, to this day have not been able to master the "sucre a la creme" and there's nobody to take it off my hands, so guess who has to eat it....moi.

hl: what's the best thing you've ever eaten?

lv: you know i love that show on the food network where they ask all these famous TV chefs to tell us the best thing they've ever eaten. the series asks about things fried, about desserts, about bacon, about cocktails, you name it....and they come up with their "best ever eaten" in each category. i'd be hard pressed to choose one thing, but i'll tell you that pan fried foie gras prepared by didier leroy (chef/owner of didier in toronto) is as close to perfection and satisfaction as i have ever tasted....but i could go on and on...

hl: is there a chef you particularly admire?

lv: i've mentioned didier leroy, he is my friend as well as a master at his craft, but i also love to eat at chef masayuki tamaru's table at simple bistro in toronto. he trained with didier and although he is japanese, his delicacies are all french. another is jean-pierre challet of ici bistro again in toronto. his restaurant is tiny and always packed and the food is divine. last but not least the great susur lee who was a contestant last season on top chef masters and almost won. he is well known in the US and a big huge star here in toronto. all the above are my friends and i have had the pleasure of cooking for a few of them several times and you know something? they're the easiest people to please.

hl: you make hosting seem effortless...what's your best entertaining tip?

lv: chef didier leroy would say: "les gens se compliquent l'existence" (people make their lives complicated....) and he is right. i like to plan, make a list, stick to it and keep things simple. then say a little prayer, have a little cocktail and you're on your way....

hl: do you prefer being a guest at other peoples' homes or having people to yours?


lv: i adore being a guest although i sometimes get the impression people are intimidated. as if! if i have the guts to serve food to some of the best cooks, i don't see why anyone could possibly fear feeding me! but to be honest, i prefer hosting....control and bragging rights...that's what it's all about.

hl: i loved the tableau you set at the center of the dinner table - a little bell, some antique looking keys. where do you usually get little treasures like that, and do you know exactly how you'll use them when you pick them up?

lv: setting a beautiful table is absolutely important. i have, over the years, collected funny and weird objects, some that have nothing to do with "the table," but placing them there, such as the little keys you mentioned, incite curiosity and make the dining experience much more interesting. they also serve as conversation subjects that can help to break the ice if some guests are shy (never happened here!)

reader note: louisa handmade placecards for each guest at our dinner.


hl: your home is a total masterpiece - every detail is something to marvel at. did you know exactly where you were headed with each choice or did it evolve as you moved ahead?


lv: some pieces were picked with a specific use in mind such as the beams in the dining room ceiling...those were actually old stair railings and i knew when i saw them at the door store in toronto what i'd do with them....my husband wasn't initially convinced, but he loves them now. other objects or pieces of furniture i just fall in love with and must have. those will follow me wherever i go.

hl: do your tastes change often? if so, how do you address that change without having to overhaul your whole design?

lv: i'm a romantic and that's not going to change...however i do like a modern clean look but within such a decor i'd always have to include the strange object that would take even that slick look to a softer more romantic and a bit shabby chic relaxed environment.

hl: whose style of interior design do you love? any of the old classics, or are there new icons you love?

lv: five me french and english country anytime.

hl: where are your favorite places to shop for design and housewares?


lv: i love shopping at the door store in toronto (reader note: not to be confused with this place). they carry the most eclectic pieces from all over the world, old doors, chairs, decorative objects, architectural pieces from demolition sites, beautiful chandeliers, door knobs, some glasses and pots, all so interesting a different -- a place to fire your imagination. i also like teatro verde which is highly polished in its approach and so sophisticated - a jewel.

hl: what's the best design bargain you've ever found? and your biggest splurge?

lv: it wasn't a bargain and i did splurge on it: my kitchen! it is clean, fresh, white. a mixture of modern, industrial and old quebec styles. as the song says: "it cost me a lot ....."




hl: is there a piece you're dreaming of right now?

lv: i dream of my next house. (reader note: all of the marble texture you see below in the fireplace is louisa's faux-finish masterpiece. yeah.)


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hl: now, your artwork...what's your favorite thing about your work? (reader note: all the paintings shown here are louisa's work).

lv: the fact that i allow it to change. hl: in lots of your work, the proportions of people and things are skewed and over the top...is that something specific to you, or it's just your aesthetic?

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lv: i was strongly influenced by botero in the past and loved gigantic characters he created. to me they meant warmth, comfort and home somehow. i have since slimmed down my "people" and they have become a little bit menacing...not mean, just "watch out," kind of. i've also done away with background altogether (for now at least) and am drawing on huge canvasses these nude or semi- nude female figures in their simplest and most vulnerable glory.


hl: where do you get your ideas when you're ready to start a new piece?

lv: an idea can germinate for years until it appears in the forefront of your mind. you may think it just popped up but art lives inside the artist and just like a garden yields a new crop each summer, an idea will grow out of the depth of the mind without any effort from the artist. i will start with a simple drawing and may leave it at that or throw it away if I'm not happy. artists are unpredictable.



hl: do you ever go through dry spells where you just don't feel creative? if so, do you try to emerge from them or just let it happen naturally?

lv: oh boy yes. and that's tough to live through. but for every dry spell you are replenished by the time resting. dry spells are essential.


hl: is there one that got away -- a piece you gave or sold that you wish you hadn't?

lv: several....but as soon as i get back to work, something new happens and the past remains a source of reference and that's how it should be.

hl: do your worlds of art and design and cooking and entertaining connect to each other in your mind? do they all feel like part of the same expression or are they totally separate?

lv: absolutely, i cook the way i paint and i paint the way i cook. creating a good meal is as satisfying as drawing the most fantastic character. delicious is what they have to be.

how lovely is louisa? her answers are so thoughtful and i feel like they have the potential to help us all think broadly about what we do and how we do it. when i read louisa's answers to my questions, i felt inspired and excited, and i hope they make you feel the same way.

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

on weddings...links of love

can you imagine the idea of a lady gaga wedding? well these two can, and you can see it on the wedding chicks. and it actually looks really gorgeous.



look at this gorgeous engagement shoot featured on bwed - i love the way their clothes are as country as their surroundings, but not obnoxiously so. and i love the wardrobe changes! and then, the same sweet couple eloped to hawaii AND have professional photos to prove it - love that they went profesh on the photos even though they ditched the big wedding.

check out the contest for free wedding photography on ok, now what bride. i mean, really, FREE wedding photos?

this country wedding cost only $6000, and the budget is broken down in a great pie chart at the bottom of this post from the broke-ass bride.

i love when lauren of every last detail posts these helpful tips...and this one has video! it's all about venues.

BRIDEfinds has the first looks at shopbop's wedding boutique, including gowns from thread social, calvin klein, catherine deane and more.

what's on your wedding brain today?

Monday, March 7, 2011

don't nod off

how great is all this graphic wall art from land of nod? even if you don't have a child in your house, these would look so awesome and unique in almost every home i know. and they're totally reasonably priced and come framed. yes please.
















Friday, March 4, 2011

an unfussy room

how totally gorgeous is this room? i love the softness of it. it's sweet and feminine, but not so much so that a man couldn't happily live there. there are so many things that speak to me about this room....the color of that wall is just perfection. and i'd know those poufs anywhere. i love the idea of them in place of a bench at the foot of the bed. the headboard reminds me of the one i die for from pottery barn and all together, the look is so unfussy and collected.

have an unfussy and collected weekend.

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Thursday, March 3, 2011

take care

when we were growing up, my sister molly was really neat and i was quite the opposite. she took good care of all her things, kept a tidy room and regularly dusted the dashboard of her car when she got one. my room and my car were both train wrecks. like, scary. think tunnels to walk through.

since then, i've improved quite a bit - i've learned the pleasures of a clean space, and i believe in the link between positive self-care and caring for your surroundings. so it always makes me smile when i sit across from this one woman on the train. she meticulously goes through the same routine each time she settles in. she sorts through her bag, putting things where they belong...she applies her makeup and handcream, wiping off each bottle and tube before putting it away. then she takes out her sunglasses and cleans them carefully. the care she uses with everything she owns reminds me of a little girl who takes impeccable care of her dolls, and as an adult, i respect it because i believe it connects to the way we care for ourselves.

i try to remember the examples of the train lady and my sister as i go through the world with all my stuff. i try to respect the money spent on things, the time spent creating them and my own enjoyment of owning them. all those things warrant extra care in their care.

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Wednesday, March 2, 2011

links and thoughts

sometimes i have so much to share with you that i need to go stream of consciousness-style, so here we go...

first, on weddings:

i had the pleasure of visiting the wedding dress shop lovely in the west village. it really was lovely, and i highly advise you visit if you are a bride, or you know one who loves pretty and girly and low key. the sign in their bathroom says "employees must look fabulous before returning to work." and they have a blog.

this royal wedding-themed wedding invitation on the wedding chicks is kind of royally awesome.

and while we're on the topic of kate middleton, BRIDEfinds has rounded up some ways to channel her.

bwed has such a sweet, charming post on the origin of the whole something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue thing...read it here, and look forward to a post coming soon about these very customs, cause i want to hear all about your somethings...

lauren from every last detail posted thoughtful, tactful tips for dealing with wedding vendors, and i think they actually apply to anyone you work with, wedding or no wedding. it's so true, and i think such a helpful thing for anyone to read...bride or no bride, just person functioning in the world.

WOW. the broke-ass-bride has done it again. check out these knockout wedding dresses, all for under a thousand dollars.

and on other topics...

i am reassured over and over again that mrs. meyer's lavender countertop spray is among my favorite things in the world. it makes cleaning like a spa experience. i'm continually obsessed. it's my ultimate, forever tiny treasure.

if you feel like you need a real spa vacation, feast your eyes on the standard hotel in miami beach.

i'm obsessed with the nate berkus show. every day. i've developed a DVR problem because i can't erase ones that don't appeal to me, because they all appeal to me. in addition to being so charming and normal and coolly uncool, it's little, simple, beautiful ideas like this and this that make me love him. it's like martha for dummies.

why do i love gwyneth paltrow so much? she's another one...cool but not cool. and by that i mean unbearably cool. have you seen her on glee? at the grammys? do you get GOOP? love. her. so. much.

apparently, there are fashionable medical id bracelets...who knew? i need to wear one because i had gastric bypass surgery. because of said surgery, i can't drink for a while, but if i could i would totes be mixing up some of this pomegranate liqueur with some bubbly. yum.

while on the jewelry train, i want one of these, in rose or yellow gold. maybe on pearls like this. really want one. like really really.

do you coupon? you really should. every once in a while, i get off the couponing boat, and then i wonder to myself how much money you really save couponing when i'm pondering getting back on. and then i remember...you save a BOATLOAD of money on the couponing boat. this site is a good place to start. the best deals are on household and beauty items, i find. and speaking of those items...

this one's for the ladies only (as if anyone but ladies reads honey living)...if you've ever felt like some nights you need a diaper rather than a maxi-pad for coverage, i found it for you. it's these. they're even bigger than they look. but i tell you, this is nighttime only material. they're so...protective...that they will change the way your pants fit. and you can read about my pants situation here.

and on that note, i'll sign off. i hope you trust that if i talk to you about feminine hygiene products, they're pretty remarkable. i tell you, these suckers are ridiculous.

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Tuesday, March 1, 2011

pearls of happiness

is there a material object that's making you particularly happy right now? for me, it's a pair of pearl stud earrings. they weren't expensive at all (similar ones here and here), but i find them to be a total moodlifter, and i think they brighten my face. yeah, i said they brighten my face. well they do!

in high school, i used to wear a strand of pearls all the time, and the joke was that i wore them even when i was wearing flannel pants and sweatshirts. though i don't wear the strands anymore, i've quickly adapted to wearing the earrings almost every day. such a classic and so elegant. i might rethink them if i decide to wear flannel pants, though. call it a sign of maturity, or maybe a pearl of wisdom.

images from here and here
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